Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her in one place to a different in home, public place, hotel etc is fairly entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy if they see in serials husband lifts his spouse just in case she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same from their husbands and imagine that could be one day their husbands would lift them within their arms and take them from a dining room to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and people are wondering and wondering and saying inside "The reason? Is this magic? Oh, she is definitely very lucky." But in fact many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for just about any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions might be there in some rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they have to have lifted their lovers but after they're in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some way don't feel happy to do such things for the obvious reasons. Women complain too with their husbands when they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses within their arms. Please have a detailed consider the following conversation between a husband and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy focusing on his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to create her happy. He's least thinking about television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It's 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to hear her just in case she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife moved totally into her favorite serial. A few minutes later, each of a sudden, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he looks at her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the television screen. He asks his wife with a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can easily see that there isn't any cricket match going on at this time. Could you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife looks at her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't trust in me if I tell you." She mutes the channel since the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Needless to say, I'll believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch just how Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what I'm honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What you think?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a concern casually "Who's Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I'm speaing frankly about this character. You know she is my favorite. You appear to almost forget all my personal favorite actors."
"Oh, just how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple exactly like that. She is so lucky to have that strong man. I'm feeling so happy you know. Perhaps you have taken me like that even once? See how much her husband loves her. That's the best way to express love. You've never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I enjoy you to her virtually every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so he can say 'I enjoy you' to her on a daily basis." He has a pause and then continues "That's merely a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those things aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. Just how can I lift you if you are so heavy?"
"I am aware, you would say that. There is a constant care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave using their wives and there is you should not remind me of my weight again and again. I'm trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I am aware for six days you follow those activities and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You are able to never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and gets into the other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a look on his face.
From the above conversation you can conclude how men and women from middle income families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, how the conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction make a difference people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can certainly raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could possibly be quite much one for family men but when tried hard, could be beneficial for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and when it persuades them to act than just to view, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get attached to serial characters quickly and get accustomed to see the characters in daily soaps they see on TV for a long time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced such as a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that even with replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character in your mind and think that she or he is still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for just about any change to just accept generally speaking when an existing character is replaced with a new one. They take the time to accept the newest one. Somehow all these things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers when they get accustomed to that particular character. Read this following assumptive example: A couple gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of them and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have some fun together. One day each morning, the wife just leaves the home without informing her husband. Once the husband returns home from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the first one and convinces him he won't have chance to generally meet the first one. What will happen in cases like this? Natural reaction in such situation could be going into shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change could be pleasant or unpleasant or both. While some men would like to have such surprises some time in their life but used to factor and emotions will be between. This is what exactly happens with viewers when replacement of their favorite actors is performed each of a sudden by a team of TV serials that could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers as a result of whom they can show whatever content they wish to in order to entertain them.
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